That is a hard question to answer for me. The answer is evolving.
Before I ever went to see Sir, he had me fill out an extensive list of 255 fetishes and rate my interest in them from 1-5 (5 being highest). Since then I have had to update my list several times. So far nothing has gone down in number, and even a few absolute Hard Limits are now acceptable. I am going to try and paste my 4's and 5's list here. (I hope the formatting isn't too messed up.)
First number- interest now, Second number- interest before Sir
Before I ever went to see Sir, he had me fill out an extensive list of 255 fetishes and rate my interest in them from 1-5 (5 being highest). Since then I have had to update my list several times. So far nothing has gone down in number, and even a few absolute Hard Limits are now acceptable. I am going to try and paste my 4's and 5's list here. (I hope the formatting isn't too messed up.)
First number- interest now, Second number- interest before Sir
- Anal plug (public, under clothes) 5 3
- Anal Plugs 5 3
- Anal Plugs (public) 5 3
- Anal Sex 5 4
- Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 4 3
- Beating (hard) 5 NO
- Beating (soft) 5 3
- Being bitten 4 3
- Blindfolds 5 5
- Bondage (heavy) 5 4
- Bondage (light) 5 5
- Bondage (public, under clothing) 5 4
- Breast whipping 5 3
- Breast/chest bondage 5 3
- Breath control 5 0
- Bruises 5 0
- Caning 5 0
- Chains 4 3
- Clothespins 5 3
- Cock worship 5 3
- Collars (worn in private) 5 5
- Collars (worn in public) 5 5
- Cuffs (leather) 5 5
- Cuffs (metal) 5 5
- Dildos 5 3
- Double penetration 5 5
- Fantasy gang-rape 5 5
- Fantasy rape 5 5
- Fear (being scared) 4 3
- Fisting (vaginal) 4 0
- Following orders 4 3
- Forced nudity (private) 5 3
- Forced servitude 4 3
- Gags (phallic) 4 3
- Gags (rubber) 5 3
- Genital sex 5 5
- Hand jobs 5 5
- Harnessing (leather) 4 4
- Harnessing (rope) 4 3
- Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) 5 5
- Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) 5 5
- Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 4 2
- Hot waxing 4 3
- Humiliation (private) 5 2
- Ice cubes 4 3
- Immobilization 4 3
- Including others 5 3
- Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage 4 3
- Kidnaping 5 5
- Kneeling 5 3
- Leather restraints 5 5
- Manacles & Irons 4 3
- Massage (receiving) 4 4
- Medical scenes 4 3
- Modeling for erotic photos 5 5
- Nipple clamps 5 3
- Nipple play/"torture" 5 3
- Nipple rings (piercings) 4 3
- Oral/anal play (rimming) 5 3
- Orgasm control 4 ?
- Orgasm denial 4 3
- Outdoor scenes 4 3
- Outdoor sex 4 3
- Over-the-knee spanking 5 5
- Pain (medium) 5 3
- Pain (mild) 5 5
- Pain (severe) 4 NO
- Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) 4 3
- Prostitution (public pretense) 4 3
- Punishment Scene 4 2
- Pussy/cock whipping 5 2
- Riding crops 5 3
- Rope body harness 4 3
- Scratching - getting 5 2
- Serving orally (sexual) 5 5
- Serving other doms (supervised) 5 5
- Serving other doms (unsupervised) 5 5
- Sexual deprivation (short term) 4 3
- Shaving (genital hair) 4 2
- Skinny-dipping 5 5
- Spanking 5 5
- Speech restrictions (when, what) 4 2
- Spreader bars 5 3
- Stocks 5 3
- Strapping (full body beating) 5 3
- Swallowing semen 5 5
- Swapping (with one other couple) 4 3
- Swinging (multiple couples) 4 3
- Teasing 4 4
- Triple penetration 5 3
- Verbal humiliation 4 3
- Vibrator on genitals 5 4
- Video (recordings of you) 5 5
- Violet Wand (electrical toy) 4 3
- Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) 4 3
- Wearing symbolic jewelry 4 4
- Whipping 5 3
- Wooden paddles 4 3
